导读
据说是用来形容一种和社交恐惧相对的,一到公众场合就介于有病与没病之间的状态。
九月份突然火起来的一个梗,随着开学季的热潮又把这个梗,推到了一个全新的高度。
社交牛逼症,从广义上来说,可以概括为那些社交能力十分突出的人。他们可以在面对不同人群的社交场景时,不在意别人的眼光,心里没有任何包袱,能完美诠释“无差别聊天”的存在。
in a broad sense, it can be summarized as those who have outstanding social skills. When facing different social scenes of different groups, they don't care about other people's eyes, have no burden in their hearts, and can perfectly interpret the existence of "indifference chat".
The "symptoms are complex and diverse. Typical ones are: don't care about other people's eyes, don't show timidity in public, and show oneself boldly.
经常在公众场合大放厥词,视周围人如空气,语不惊人死不休,我要是周围群众我都恨不得把他嘴捂上。
换言之,“只要我不尴尬,尴尬的就是别人”。
In other words, "as long as I'm not embarrassed, others are embarrassed".
这些“症状”,跨越了国家和民族,什么语言障碍,那都不叫个事儿。人来疯,自来熟的属性,可是深深地刻在社交牛逼人的DNA里。
那作为一个社交牛逼症患者需要哪些特质呢?